Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Gracious dissension: to my Facebook friends



So it’s kind of a weird day on the American political scene, yes? Republican Party is looking at a Trump nominee, who, crazily enough, is winning in the popular votes and delegate count. The Democrat Party is looking at a Clinton nominee, who, crazily enough, is actually doing pretty terribly in the popular vote but, you know, super delegates.

Oh, and before I really get rolling here, [is everyone just afflicted right now with All The Thinking? Or just me?] this is where I’m coming from, and who I imagine will read this. 

1. I am a disciple of the risen and reigning Jesus Christ—I love him, I read his Word, and I believe that it is true. He says hard things, and they are good and true. 

2. I hold conservative beliefs: morally, socially, fiscally, politically… in every way, pretty much, I lean to the right. I keep up with Rush Limbaugh. [Keep Up, I said, not worship. See #1.] I read the Blaze, Matt Walsh, Fox News, Drudge Report. 

3. I have both very conservative and very liberal Facebook friends who are Christian and otherwise, and see no reason to curate my friends-list based on this. 
In fact, because of my liberal pals, I read HuffPo articles, Rachel Held Evans blog posts, hippie-organic-crunchy news, ‘bleeding heart’ stuff. :) (Jen Hatmaker, looking at you. Love you.)
~ I disagree profoundly with lots of what you post, politically. Sometimes I think you’re nuts (this is said affectionately—and will full knowledge that it would work both directions).
~ You guys have super cool lives though—awesome travels, funny and adorable kids, great recipes that you rocked (or not), jobs that I could never do, churches and families that are taking care of you, mission opportunities that you pour yourselves into. I think you are neat people. I claim you as my friends.

4. Here’s the thing, my main thing today. I don’t know who to vote for. I was all-in for Cruz. Was he perfect? No. But as a citizen bearing the right to vote (rights protected at such cost, by so many), here is how I consider the candidates and who gets my vote—I’m thinking it is a similar process for most interested/invested voters. Maybe I’m off base, you tell me.

First, we want someone who says Good Things, things we agree with. [caveat: For the most part. 100% agreement would mean running myself, which is unlikely for most of us!]  This refers to their ‘platform’ as well as just the regular words that come out of their mouth. We want someone who doesn’t lie, whose stance on current issues lines up with our own thoughts, and who isn’t crass or awful.

Then, after we affirm the words they say, we want them to actually demonstrate that they DO the Good Things they promise. A track record—something from their past that would point to future behavior. 
A voting record in congress; 
a look at the legislation they author or support; 
job performance as statesmen (and states-women) or businessmen (and women); 
assurance from their family life, perhaps, which could indicate loyalty, fidelity, capability to see and love humanity [people with kids have the opportunity to SEE and LOVE HUMANITY, for instance!].

For me, these criteria pointed me to Ted Cruz. (And allowed for several others, who were filtered out by the primary process.) They point me AWAY from all three candidates right now. #nevertrump #neverhillary #neverbernie. Most of these candidates break down early on: they believe things that I don’t, and they don’t believe things that I do. 

I know that there are lots of you, Facebook Christian Liberal or Conservative friends, who might drag the candidates through the same process and come out with a different person. Obviously. This is where it gets tricky. 

I am bothered when people I respect, people I have dear memories singing with, or playing sports with, or learning from, say things along the lines of “People who are for Ted Cruz are against the gospel,” or “If you know what Jesus thinks about [social justice thing], then you cannot simply vote for Ted Cruz.” Or that whole “Lucifer” thing from John Boehner.* 
Unconscionable, to suggest that the Enemy of God resides in a person, any person.  
 But, shamefully, I admit to having had similar thoughts the other way, about Hillary supporters or Obama fans. (Not about them being the devil; about my knowing God’s will and knowing His least preferred candidate and making broad assumptions about the type of people who support him). How ungracious of me.   **these are not actual quotes, but I’m sure you have seen this kind of thing.**

I resent it when I see Christians on the other side of my views proliferating these ideas. They seem to assume that I haven’t done my due wrestling. Jesus is not running for president. He is King, and we get the full joys of that later, #comeLordJesus, but right now we just have people running for president. So that’s who we get to pick from, if we do in fact cast a vote.

One example of how this plays out goes like this: Fellow Christians who are liberals might accuse me of not loving the widow and orphan, the alien within our American gates. (Based on the fact that Senator Cruz, and Trump too, have run on stiffer immigration law and enforcement, which would necessarily restrict floods of immigrants in search of a better life.) I have weighed that, and found the plight of hundreds of thousands of babies a year who are sliced and diced in horrific ways LESS palatable.  So, I can’t support someone who supports Planned Parenthood. I just can’t. Yes, that puts me on the hook for all the babies who must be born and cared for, and their mothers. And fathers. I take that on, and I think that the policies of conservatism allow for increased prosperity even at the bottom level, as well as the space for Christ’s church to dive in and take on big problems in small, community-level efforts. That’s where my heart and hands want social justice to happen in a big way. 

I am seeing that other people who also hold my Christ-following worldview have wrestled this through and come out with something different. On this, and many other issues. Where’s the line on human dominion of Creation? We land different places on what it means to care for, subdue, delight in, resource from. 

So much wrestling—in our own hearts, to discern our own positions, and then hashed out all over again when we have to pick someone who will represent us in government. Someone who thinks like us For the most part. Which means that some parts are going to be contrary, and we all have different ideas of what is essential to our candidate, and what might have to give a little, in a vote. Or, perhaps, not budging. There comes a time when the least of two evils is still evil. But I don’t think we all get to this point at the same time, do we? … like I said, it’s tricky.

So, to end: Friends who are Christians and liberals, I thank you for your perspective. I don’t get it, but I want you to know that I suspect you all are people who don’t hate people who are different in thought or looks or behavior, and that you actually want good things to happen in government and society for all people. Please do me the honor of acknowledging the same.

And to really end: for me, it’s still #nevertrump #neverbernie #neverhillary.

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Happy New Year!

Yesterday was a great day to be at Mt. Baker, sledding and tromping around in winter clothes--my new winter boots, for example. Which I love. Also my new toboggan from last year--a present that I longed to try out, and didn't until now! Then it bucked me off and I was a little wary about this orange attitude...
Here is pictorial evidence of our fun time with Kevin & Carla. Today I am sore from impact (or maybe just mild physical activity!) and need this evidence just as much as you do!










Saturday, December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas!

Wishing you & your family a very joyful Christmas day & a happy new year. You probably aren't celebrating with the style that we are though--awesome plaid PJ pants, yes!

Other wonderful things about this morning:
*butterbraid for breakfast, strawberry cream cheese
*the stories of David's great deals on my presents, with sales and coupons
*coffee with peppermint creamer :)
*sleeping in!
*jewels and treasures for me, lovely necklace & earrings set!
*spending time with David

Anticipating a fun day with the Vos clan!

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Christmas time is here


James, who we distracted with his own tree to decorate


Henry with his gimpy non-lighted legs

Our tree!






































Sunday, October 31, 2010

The Long & Muddy & Exciting Road

Muddy, scruffy looking yard. . .



















Clean, groomed, green yard! Woohoo!!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

October is here already?

Well the lawn is up at green, while the sky is grey and drippy. Like a clash of spring-like growth and pleasantly dreary fall all smashed together in my front yard. Woo hoo.

No other thoughts from my brain at this time. I used to write a lot--why was is so easy to waste time in college blogging? Instead of writing papers, I would write pointless updates. Now, instead of cleaning my house, I don't do anything. Not even blog! :) Crazy, hey. Yeah, me too.

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

New computer!

After a 6 month hiatus. . . I finally have something I consider blogworthy, namely, I have a computer that doesn't crash while I try posting a new entry. Yep, new laptop! Who's happy? Me. Who is mildly jealous? David and my old laptop. :)